Tag: friendships

  • A Goodbye

    A Goodbye

    Thoughts: Today I found out that a friend passed away yesterday. You know how God just gives you people that make life seem a little bit easier? My friend and I were spiritually connected. We never had a heart to heart, or deep conversations. My friend accepted me as I am, there was never any condemnation emitting from him, just a soul who loved life and shared it joyfully with others. Just being around him made the day seem less intimidating.

    Anyway, when thinking of how to describe our connection I thought of soul ties, thinking of the connection between David and Jonathan. So I decided to see where in the bible it speaks of soul ties; and is what I had a soul tie. (You know today I hear people talking about soul ties as between romantically involved individuals. Again, my friend and I were platonic–more like brother and sister.) That is why some homosexuals claim David and Jonathan were lovers because they were said to have had a soul tie. Anyway, my friend and I did not have a romantic involvement, just a brother sister connection.

    I quickly went into the word to see what scriptures contained “soul ties” in them so I could see the biblical meaning. To my surprise there are NO scriptures talking about soul ties. Instead, private interpretation once more of scriptures (such as I Samuel 18:1, Genesis 2:24, I Corinthians 6:16-18, Ephesians 5:31) said to be referring to soul ties. Now I go into the internet to search out soul ties. To my amazement (don’t know why it is a surprise to me at this point of my life) soul ties is a term straight out of New Age. I found “In New Age thought, soul ties are explained as powerful, often intense, spiritual connections between two individuals that transcend physical and temporal boundaries. They are believed to be pre-arranged agreements, or contracts, between souls that can span across lifetimes and influence relationships in the present.” Under pre-arranged agreements: “Soul ties are often described as pre-birth contracts or agreements between souls, setting the stage for specific interactions and relationships in this lifetime.” What souls do we know to exist before being birthed into this crazy sin filled world?

    How in the world are we Christians running with this? I thought soul ties was in the bible the way we Christians are always spitting that verbiage out. This is why the Bereans always ran home to search out the scriptures for themselves. If I had been as diligent as they, I would have looked to see where these words are in the bible the first time I heard them, instead of just believing. We have to discern true spiritual guidance from false. All interpretations of the word of God is not the truth of the matter, go back to what does the word say. The word tells us “That the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David….” and now we hear that they had soul ties. This is a prime example of worldly things floating into the church, and the church approving it without examining it. I wonder how many other Christians believed soul ties to be biblical and run with it.

    But in all this, I say goodbye to a wonderful soul that was knit to mine.